A very informative page for everyone on the subject of unpleasant visitors here (and I don't mean mice). I particularly draw your attention to paragraph 3, and the standard protocol for dealing with such nuisances.
I'm a married lady with 3 kids - Emma, Thomas and James - all at different spots on the autism spectrum. In my spare time I translate and create English subtitles for obscure French movies. I also bake, garden and build computers.